diff --git a/src/Feed/EventPublisher.ts b/src/Feed/EventPublisher.ts
index 8c12130c..b62d6883 100644
--- a/src/Feed/EventPublisher.ts
+++ b/src/Feed/EventPublisher.ts
@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ import Tag from "Nostr/Tag";
 import { RootState } from "State/Store";
 import { HexKey, RawEvent, u256, UserMetadata } from "Nostr";
 import { bech32ToHex } from "Util"
-import { HashtagRegex } from "Const";
+import { DefaultRelays, HashtagRegex } from "Const";
 
 declare global {
     interface Window {
@@ -72,6 +72,18 @@ export default function useEventPublisher() {
                 System.BroadcastEvent(ev);
             }
         },
+        /**
+         * Write event to DefaultRelays, this is important for profiles / relay lists to prevent bugs
+         * If a user removes all the DefaultRelays from their relay list and saves that relay list, 
+         * When they open the site again we wont see that updated relay list and so it will appear to reset back to the previous state
+         */
+        broadcastForBootstrap: (ev: NEvent | undefined) => {
+            if(ev) {
+                for(let [k, _] of DefaultRelays) {
+                    System.WriteOnceToRelay(k, ev);
+                }
+            }
+        },
         metadata: async (obj: UserMetadata) => {
             if (pubKey) {
                 let ev = NEvent.ForPubKey(pubKey);
diff --git a/src/Nostr/Connection.ts b/src/Nostr/Connection.ts
index 680eb64b..1ddd14f8 100644
--- a/src/Nostr/Connection.ts
+++ b/src/Nostr/Connection.ts
@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ import { Subscriptions } from "Nostr/Subscriptions";
 import { default as NEvent } from "Nostr/Event";
 import { DefaultConnectTimeout } from "Const";
 import { ConnectionStats } from "Nostr/ConnectionStats";
-import { RawEvent, TaggedRawEvent } from "Nostr";
+import { RawEvent, TaggedRawEvent, u256 } from "Nostr";
 
 export type CustomHook = (state: Readonly<StateSnapshot>) => void;
 
@@ -44,6 +44,7 @@ export default class Connection {
     LastState: Readonly<StateSnapshot>;
     IsClosed: boolean;
     ReconnectTimer: ReturnType<typeof setTimeout> | null;
+    EventsCallback: Map<u256, () => void>;
 
     constructor(addr: string, options: RelaySettings) {
         this.Address = addr;
@@ -67,6 +68,7 @@ export default class Connection {
         this.LastState = Object.freeze({ ...this.CurrentState });
         this.IsClosed = false;
         this.ReconnectTimer = null;
+        this.EventsCallback = new Map();
         this.Connect();
     }
 
@@ -138,6 +140,12 @@ export default class Connection {
                 case "OK": {
                     // feedback to broadcast call
                     console.debug("OK: ", msg);
+                    const id = msg[1];
+                    if (this.EventsCallback.has(id)) {
+                        let cb = this.EventsCallback.get(id)!;
+                        this.EventsCallback.delete(id);
+                        cb();
+                    }
                     break;
                 }
                 case "NOTICE": {
@@ -170,6 +178,30 @@ export default class Connection {
         this._UpdateState();
     }
 
+    /**
+     * Send event on this connection and wait for OK response
+     */
+    async SendAsync(e: NEvent, timeout: number = 5000) {
+        return new Promise<void>((resolve, reject) => {
+            if (!this.Settings.write) {
+                resolve();
+                return;
+            }
+            let t = setTimeout(() => {
+                resolve();
+            }, timeout);
+            this.EventsCallback.set(e.Id, () => {
+                clearTimeout(t);
+                resolve();
+            });
+
+            let req = ["EVENT", e.ToObject()];
+            this._SendJson(req);
+            this.Stats.EventsSent++;
+            this._UpdateState();
+        });
+    }
+
     /**
      * Subscribe to data from this connection
      */
diff --git a/src/Nostr/System.ts b/src/Nostr/System.ts
index 8cfda4a5..bdc81e73 100644
--- a/src/Nostr/System.ts
+++ b/src/Nostr/System.ts
@@ -50,6 +50,9 @@ export class NostrSystem {
                 for (let [_, s] of this.Subscriptions) {
                     c.AddSubscription(s);
                 }
+            } else {
+                // update settings if already connected
+                this.Sockets.get(address)!.Settings = options;
             }
         } catch (e) {
             console.error(e);
@@ -90,6 +93,15 @@ export class NostrSystem {
         }
     }
 
+    /**
+     * Write an event to a relay then disconnect
+     */
+    async WriteOnceToRelay(address: string, ev: Event) {
+        let c = new Connection(address, { write: true, read: false });
+        await c.SendAsync(ev);
+        c.Close();
+    }
+
     /**
      * Request profile metadata for a set of pubkeys
      */
@@ -179,9 +191,9 @@ export class NostrSystem {
                 let profile = mapEventToProfile(e);
                 if (profile) {
                     let existing = await db.users.get(profile.pubkey);
-                    if((existing?.created ?? 0) < profile.created) {
+                    if ((existing?.created ?? 0) < profile.created) {
                         await db.users.put(profile);
-                    } else if(existing) {
+                    } else if (existing) {
                         await db.users.update(profile.pubkey, { loaded: new Date().getTime() });
                     }
                 }
diff --git a/src/Pages/settings/Relays.tsx b/src/Pages/settings/Relays.tsx
index bb81c1e7..3ca0fca4 100644
--- a/src/Pages/settings/Relays.tsx
+++ b/src/Pages/settings/Relays.tsx
@@ -16,6 +16,7 @@ const RelaySettingsPage = () => {
     async function saveRelays() {
         let ev = await publisher.saveRelays();
         publisher.broadcast(ev);
+        publisher.broadcastForBootstrap(ev);
     }