diff --git a/ROADMAP.md b/ROADMAP.md
index 34746a55..fbf6e88c 100644
--- a/ROADMAP.md
+++ b/ROADMAP.md
@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 # Current
 
-- [ ] Check on RelayCard, it should automatically do the right thing for anon/pubkey
+- [ ] Details on note in modal is broken
 - [ ] Remember message/chat status
 - [ ] Image classification
   - https://github.com/bhky/opennsfw2
diff --git a/src/agent/pool.ts b/src/agent/pool.ts
index 567a7cd4..0227444d 100644
--- a/src/agent/pool.ts
+++ b/src/agent/pool.ts
@@ -94,6 +94,13 @@ const Meta = {
 
 const forceUrls = (import.meta.env.VITE_FORCE_RELAYS || "").split(",").filter(identity)
 
+const defaultUrls = [
+  "wss://nostr-pub.wellorder.net",
+  "wss://nostr.zebedee.cloud",
+  "wss://nos.lol",
+  "wss://brb.io",
+]
+
 const getUrls = relays => {
   if (relays.length === 0) {
     error(`Attempted to connect to zero urls`)
@@ -370,6 +377,7 @@ export default {
   Config,
   Meta,
   forceUrls,
+  defaultUrls,
   disconnect,
   getQuality,
   publish,
diff --git a/src/agent/relays.ts b/src/agent/relays.ts
index 667102e4..eaa9700a 100644
--- a/src/agent/relays.ts
+++ b/src/agent/relays.ts
@@ -185,6 +185,11 @@ export const sampleRelays = (relays, scale = 1) => {
     relays = relays.concat(shuffle(getUserReadRelays()).slice(0, limit - relays.length))
   }
 
+  // And if we still have nothing, add a default
+  if (relays.length === 0) {
+    relays = [{url: pool.forceUrls[0] || pool.defaultUrls[0]}]
+  }
+
   return uniqByUrl(relays)
 }
 
diff --git a/src/agent/social.ts b/src/agent/social.ts
index 58d29336..2863e827 100644
--- a/src/agent/social.ts
+++ b/src/agent/social.ts
@@ -3,6 +3,13 @@ import {Tags} from "src/util/nostr"
 import {getPersonWithFallback} from "src/agent/db"
 import user from "src/agent/user"
 
+export const defaultFollows = [
+  "97c70a44366a6535c145b333f973ea86dfdc2d7a99da618c40c64705ad98e322", // hodlbod
+  "3bf0c63fcb93463407af97a5e5ee64fa883d107ef9e558472c4eb9aaaefa459d", // fiatjaf
+  "82341f882b6eabcd2ba7f1ef90aad961cf074af15b9ef44a09f9d2a8fbfbe6a2", // jack
+  "6e468422dfb74a5738702a8823b9b28168abab8655faacb6853cd0ee15deee93", // Gigi
+]
+
 export const getFollows = pubkey =>
   Tags.wrap(getPersonWithFallback(pubkey).petnames).type("p").values().all()
 
diff --git a/src/agent/user.ts b/src/agent/user.ts
index 70fb3096..b013afe2 100644
--- a/src/agent/user.ts
+++ b/src/agent/user.ts
@@ -88,6 +88,7 @@ export default {
   petnames,
   getPetnames: () => profileCopy.petnames,
   petnamePubkeys: derived(petnames, map(nth(1))) as Readable<Array<string>>,
+  getPetnamePubkeys: () => profileCopy.petnames.map(nth(1)),
   updatePetnames(f) {
     const $petnames = f(profileCopy.petnames)
 
diff --git a/src/app/EnsureData.svelte b/src/app/EnsureData.svelte
index 583f194e..0944f4ad 100644
--- a/src/app/EnsureData.svelte
+++ b/src/app/EnsureData.svelte
@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@
       {/if}
       <div class="flex flex-col gap-2">
         {#each $relays as relay (relay.url)}
-          <RelayCard showActions {relay} />
+          <RelayCard {relay} />
         {:else}
           <div class="flex flex-col items-center gap-4 my-8">
             <div class="text-xl flex gap-2 items-center">
@@ -45,7 +45,7 @@
       </div>
       <RelaySearch>
         <div slot="item" let:relay>
-          <RelayCard showActions {relay} />
+          <RelayCard {relay} />
         </div>
       </RelaySearch>
     </Content>
diff --git a/src/app/shared/NoteActions.svelte b/src/app/shared/NoteActions.svelte
index b3f03468..de9143ac 100644
--- a/src/app/shared/NoteActions.svelte
+++ b/src/app/shared/NoteActions.svelte
@@ -312,7 +312,7 @@
       <p>This note was found on {quantify(note.seen_on.length, "relay")} below.</p>
       <div class="flex flex-col gap-2">
         {#each note.seen_on as url}
-          <RelayCard theme="black" relay={{url}} />
+          <RelayCard relay={{url}} />
         {/each}
       </div>
       <h1 class="staatliches text-2xl">Details</h1>
diff --git a/src/app/shared/PersonInfo.svelte b/src/app/shared/PersonInfo.svelte
index cc924c0f..f95dd3cd 100644
--- a/src/app/shared/PersonInfo.svelte
+++ b/src/app/shared/PersonInfo.svelte
@@ -14,9 +14,9 @@
   export let person
   export let hasPetname = null
 
-  export let removePetname = ({pubkey}) => user.removePetname(pubkey)
+  const removePetname = ({pubkey}) => user.removePetname(pubkey)
 
-  export let addPetname = ({pubkey}) => {
+  const addPetname = ({pubkey}) => {
     const [{url}] = sampleRelays(getPubkeyWriteRelays(pubkey))
 
     user.addPetname(pubkey, url, displayPerson(person))
diff --git a/src/app/shared/PersonRelays.svelte b/src/app/shared/PersonRelays.svelte
index 374ad682..2aa2785e 100644
--- a/src/app/shared/PersonRelays.svelte
+++ b/src/app/shared/PersonRelays.svelte
@@ -16,9 +16,7 @@
       <div class="pt-8 text-center">No relays found</div>
     {:else}
       {#each relays as relay (relay.url)}
-        {#if relay.write !== "!"}
-          <RelayCard {relay} />
-        {/if}
+        <RelayCard {relay} />
       {/each}
     {/if}
   </Content>
diff --git a/src/app/shared/RelayCard.svelte b/src/app/shared/RelayCard.svelte
index acea14a4..0e127c90 100644
--- a/src/app/shared/RelayCard.svelte
+++ b/src/app/shared/RelayCard.svelte
@@ -14,7 +14,7 @@
   export let relay
   export let theme = "gray-8"
   export let showStatus = false
-  export let showActions = false
+  export let hideActions = false
   export let showControls = false
 
   const {relays, canPublish} = user
@@ -23,11 +23,11 @@
   let quality = null
   let message = null
 
-  export let hasRelay = r => Boolean(find(propEq("url", r.url), $relays))
+  $: hasRelay = Boolean(find(propEq("url", relay.url), $relays))
 
-  export let removeRelay = r => user.removeRelay(r.url)
+  const removeRelay = r => user.removeRelay(r.url)
 
-  export let addRelay = r => {
+  const addRelay = r => {
     user.addRelay(r.url)
 
     const pubkey = user.getPubkey()
@@ -79,17 +79,16 @@
         </p>
       {/if}
     </div>
-    {#if showActions}
+    {#if !hideActions}
       <slot name="actions">
-        {#if hasRelay(relay) && $relays.length > 1}
-          <button class="flex items-center gap-3 text-gray-1" on:click={() => removeRelay(relay)}>
-            <i class="fa fa-right-from-bracket" /> Leave
-          </button>
-        {/if}
-        {#if !hasRelay(relay)}
+        {#if !hasRelay}
           <button class="flex items-center gap-3 text-gray-1" on:click={() => addRelay(relay)}>
             <i class="fa fa-right-to-bracket" /> Join
           </button>
+        {:else if $relays.length > 1}
+          <button class="flex items-center gap-3 text-gray-1" on:click={() => removeRelay(relay)}>
+            <i class="fa fa-right-from-bracket" /> Leave
+          </button>
         {/if}
       </slot>
     {/if}
@@ -97,7 +96,8 @@
   {#if relay.description}
     <p>{relay.description}</p>
   {/if}
-  {#if hasRelay(relay) && showControls && $canPublish}
+  {#if hasRelay && showControls && $canPublish}
+    <div class="-mx-6 my-1 h-px bg-gray-7" />
     <div class="flex justify-between gap-2">
       <span>Publish to this relay?</span>
       <Toggle
diff --git a/src/app/views/LoginConnect.svelte b/src/app/views/LoginConnect.svelte
index be29eb9c..96705022 100644
--- a/src/app/views/LoginConnect.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/LoginConnect.svelte
@@ -122,7 +122,7 @@
     {#each Object.values(currentRelays) as relay}
       <div class="h-12">
         {#if relay}
-          <RelayCard relay={{...relay, description: null}} />
+          <RelayCard hideActions relay={{...relay, description: null}} />
         {/if}
       </div>
     {/each}
diff --git a/src/app/views/NoteCreate.svelte b/src/app/views/NoteCreate.svelte
index 6aa70f1d..a2e781d6 100644
--- a/src/app/views/NoteCreate.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/NoteCreate.svelte
@@ -151,7 +151,7 @@
         </div>
         <RelaySearch bind:q limit={3} hideIfEmpty>
           <div slot="item" let:relay>
-            <RelayCard {relay} showActions>
+            <RelayCard {relay}>
               <button
                 slot="actions"
                 class="underline"
diff --git a/src/app/views/Onboarding.svelte b/src/app/views/Onboarding.svelte
index dad79ff1..c10b2f5a 100644
--- a/src/app/views/Onboarding.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/Onboarding.svelte
@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 <script lang="ts">
-  import {uniq, objOf} from "ramda"
+  import {uniq} from "ramda"
   import {onMount} from "svelte"
   import {generatePrivateKey} from "nostr-tools"
   import {fly} from "svelte/transition"
@@ -11,11 +11,10 @@
   import OnboardingRelays from "src/app/views/OnboardingRelays.svelte"
   import OnboardingFollows from "src/app/views/OnboardingFollows.svelte"
   import OnboardingComplete from "src/app/views/OnboardingComplete.svelte"
-  import {getFollows} from "src/agent/social"
+  import {getFollows, defaultFollows} from "src/agent/social"
   import {getPubkeyWriteRelays, sampleRelays} from "src/agent/relays"
   import {getPersonWithFallback} from "src/agent/db"
   import network from "src/agent/network"
-  import pool from "src/agent/pool"
   import user from "src/agent/user"
   import keys from "src/agent/keys"
   import {loadAppData} from "src/app/state"
@@ -23,39 +22,15 @@
 
   export let stage
 
-  const {relays: userRelays, petnamePubkeys} = user
-
-  let relays = []
-  if ($userRelays.length > 0) {
-    relays = $userRelays
-  } else if (pool.forceUrls.length > 0) {
-    relays = pool.forceUrls.map(objOf("url"))
-  } else {
-    relays = [
-      {url: "wss://nostr-pub.wellorder.net", write: true},
-      {url: "wss://nostr.zebedee.cloud", write: true},
-      {url: "wss://nos.lol", write: true},
-      {url: "wss://brb.io", write: true},
-    ]
-  }
-
-  let follows =
-    $petnamePubkeys.length > 0
-      ? $petnamePubkeys
-      : [
-          "97c70a44366a6535c145b333f973ea86dfdc2d7a99da618c40c64705ad98e322", // hodlbod
-          "3bf0c63fcb93463407af97a5e5ee64fa883d107ef9e558472c4eb9aaaefa459d", // fiatjaf
-          "82341f882b6eabcd2ba7f1ef90aad961cf074af15b9ef44a09f9d2a8fbfbe6a2", // jack
-          "6e468422dfb74a5738702a8823b9b28168abab8655faacb6853cd0ee15deee93", // Gigi
-        ]
-
   const privkey = generatePrivateKey()
 
   const signup = async () => {
     await keys.login("privkey", privkey)
-    await user.updateRelays(() => relays)
+
+    // Re-save preferences now that we have a key
+    await user.updateRelays(() => user.getRelays())
     await user.updatePetnames(() =>
-      follows.map(pubkey => {
+      user.getPetnamePubkeys().map(pubkey => {
         const [{url}] = sampleRelays(getPubkeyWriteRelays(pubkey))
         const name = displayPerson(getPersonWithFallback(pubkey))
 
@@ -65,12 +40,15 @@
 
     loadAppData(user.getPubkey())
 
-    modal.pop()
+    modal.clear()
     navigate("/notes")
   }
 
   // Prime our people cache for hardcoded follows and a sample of people they follow
   onMount(async () => {
+    const relays = sampleRelays(user.getRelays())
+    const follows = user.getPetnamePubkeys().concat(defaultFollows)
+
     await network.loadPeople(follows, {relays})
 
     const others = shuffle(uniq(follows.flatMap(getFollows))).slice(0, 256)
@@ -86,9 +64,9 @@
     {:else if stage === "key"}
       <OnboardingKey {privkey} />
     {:else if stage === "relays"}
-      <OnboardingRelays bind:relays />
+      <OnboardingRelays />
     {:else if stage === "follows"}
-      <OnboardingFollows bind:follows />
+      <OnboardingFollows />
     {:else}
       <OnboardingComplete {signup} />
     {/if}
diff --git a/src/app/views/OnboardingFollows.svelte b/src/app/views/OnboardingFollows.svelte
index 8418f31c..b2065078 100644
--- a/src/app/views/OnboardingFollows.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/OnboardingFollows.svelte
@@ -1,34 +1,33 @@
 <script lang="ts">
-  import {without, always} from "ramda"
-  import {fuzzy} from "src/util/misc"
+  import {reject} from "ramda"
+  import {displayPerson} from "src/util/nostr"
   import Input from "src/partials/Input.svelte"
   import Anchor from "src/partials/Anchor.svelte"
   import Heading from "src/partials/Heading.svelte"
   import Content from "src/partials/Content.svelte"
   import PersonInfo from "src/app/shared/PersonInfo.svelte"
-  import {getPersonWithFallback} from "src/agent/db"
-  import {watch} from "src/agent/db"
+  import {getPersonWithFallback, searchPeople} from "src/agent/db"
+  import {defaultFollows} from "src/agent/social"
+  import {sampleRelays, getPubkeyWriteRelays} from "src/agent/relays"
   import {modal} from "src/partials/state"
+  import user from "src/agent/user"
 
-  export let follows
+  const {petnamePubkeys} = user
+
+  if ($petnamePubkeys.length === 0) {
+    user.updatePetnames(() =>
+      defaultFollows.map(pubkey => {
+        const [{url}] = sampleRelays(getPubkeyWriteRelays(pubkey))
+        const name = displayPerson(getPersonWithFallback(pubkey))
+
+        return ["p", pubkey, url, name]
+      })
+    )
+  }
 
   let q = ""
-  let search
 
-  const knownPeople = watch("people", t => t.all({"kind0.name": {$type: "string"}}))
-
-  $: search = fuzzy(
-    $knownPeople.filter(p => !follows.includes(p.pubkey)),
-    {keys: ["kind0.name", "kind0.about", "pubkey"]}
-  )
-
-  const removePetname = ({pubkey}) => {
-    follows = without([pubkey], follows)
-  }
-
-  const addPetname = ({pubkey}) => {
-    follows = follows.concat(pubkey)
-  }
+  $: results = reject(p => $petnamePubkeys.includes(p.pubkey), $searchPeople(q))
 </script>
 
 <Content>
@@ -40,7 +39,7 @@
     </p>
     <Anchor
       type="button-accent"
-      on:click={() => modal.push({type: "onboarding", stage: "complete"})}>
+      on:click={() => modal.replace({type: "onboarding", stage: "complete"})}>
       Continue
     </Anchor>
   </Content>
@@ -48,17 +47,14 @@
     <i class="fa fa-user-astronaut fa-lg" />
     <h2 class="staatliches text-2xl">Your follows</h2>
   </div>
-  {#if follows.length === 0}
+  {#if $petnamePubkeys.length === 0}
     <div class="mt-8 flex items-center justify-center gap-2 text-center">
       <i class="fa fa-triangle-exclamation" />
       <span>No follows selected</span>
     </div>
   {:else}
-    {#each follows as pubkey}
-      <PersonInfo
-        person={getPersonWithFallback(pubkey)}
-        hasPetname={always(true)}
-        {removePetname} />
+    {#each $petnamePubkeys as pubkey}
+      <PersonInfo person={getPersonWithFallback(pubkey)} />
     {/each}
   {/if}
   <div class="flex items-center gap-2">
@@ -68,7 +64,7 @@
   <Input bind:value={q} type="text" wrapperClass="flex-grow" placeholder="Type to search">
     <i slot="before" class="fa-solid fa-search" />
   </Input>
-  {#each search(q).slice(0, 50) as person (person.pubkey)}
-    <PersonInfo {person} hasPetname={always(false)} {addPetname} />
+  {#each results.slice(0, 50) as person (person.pubkey)}
+    <PersonInfo {person} />
   {/each}
 </Content>
diff --git a/src/app/views/OnboardingIntro.svelte b/src/app/views/OnboardingIntro.svelte
index 79b201f8..2045d88e 100644
--- a/src/app/views/OnboardingIntro.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/OnboardingIntro.svelte
@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@
     When you’re ready to dive in, click below and we’ll guide you through the process of creating an
     account.
   </p>
-  <Anchor type="button-accent" on:click={() => modal.push({type: "onboarding", stage: "key"})}>
+  <Anchor type="button-accent" on:click={() => modal.replace({type: "onboarding", stage: "key"})}>
     Let's go!
   </Anchor>
 </Content>
diff --git a/src/app/views/OnboardingKey.svelte b/src/app/views/OnboardingKey.svelte
index fd5312bc..8a62ed30 100644
--- a/src/app/views/OnboardingKey.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/OnboardingKey.svelte
@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@
     </Input>
     <Anchor
       type="button-accent"
-      on:click={() => modal.push({type: "onboarding", stage: nextStage})}>
+      on:click={() => modal.replace({type: "onboarding", stage: nextStage})}>
       Log in
     </Anchor>
   </div>
diff --git a/src/app/views/OnboardingRelays.svelte b/src/app/views/OnboardingRelays.svelte
index bfbd3f5f..33ba2b27 100644
--- a/src/app/views/OnboardingRelays.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/OnboardingRelays.svelte
@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 <script lang="ts">
-  import {reject, always, pluck, propEq} from "ramda"
+  import {pluck} from "ramda"
   import {fuzzy} from "src/util/misc"
   import {modal} from "src/partials/state"
   import Input from "src/partials/Input.svelte"
@@ -8,23 +8,26 @@
   import Content from "src/partials/Content.svelte"
   import RelayCard from "src/app/shared/RelayCard.svelte"
   import {watch} from "src/agent/db"
+  import pool from "src/agent/pool"
+  import user from "src/agent/user"
 
-  export let relays
+  const {relays} = user
+
+  if ($relays.length === 0) {
+    user.updateRelays(() =>
+      (pool.forceUrls.length > 0 ? pool.forceUrls : pool.defaultUrls).map(url => ({
+        url,
+        write: true,
+      }))
+    )
+  }
 
   let q = ""
   let search
 
   const knownRelays = watch("relays", t => t.all())
 
-  const removeRelay = r => {
-    relays = reject(propEq("url", r.url), relays)
-  }
-
-  const addRelay = r => {
-    relays = relays.concat({...r, write: true})
-  }
-
-  $: joined = new Set(pluck("url", relays))
+  $: joined = new Set(pluck("url", $relays))
   $: search = fuzzy(
     $knownRelays.filter(r => !joined.has(r.url)),
     {keys: ["name", "description", "url"]}
@@ -32,32 +35,33 @@
 </script>
 
 <Content>
-  <Content class="text-center">
+  <div class="text-center">
     <Heading>Get Connected</Heading>
     <p>
       Nostr is a protocol, not a platform. This means that <i>you</i> choose where to store your data.
       Select your preferred storage relays below, or click "continue" to use some reasonable defaults.
       You can change your selection any time.
     </p>
-    <Anchor
-      type="button-accent"
-      on:click={() => modal.push({type: "onboarding", stage: "follows"})}>
-      Continue
-    </Anchor>
-  </Content>
+  </div>
+  <Anchor
+    type="button-accent"
+    class="text-center"
+    on:click={() => modal.replace({type: "onboarding", stage: "follows"})}>
+    Continue
+  </Anchor>
   <div class="flex items-center gap-2">
     <i class="fa fa-server fa-lg" />
     <h2 class="staatliches text-2xl">Your relays</h2>
   </div>
-  {#if relays.length === 0}
+  {#if $relays.length === 0}
     <div class="mt-8 flex items-center justify-center gap-2 text-center">
       <i class="fa fa-triangle-exclamation" />
       <span>No relays connected</span>
     </div>
   {:else}
     <div class="grid grid-cols-1 gap-4">
-      {#each relays as relay (relay.url)}
-        <RelayCard {relay} hasRelay={always(true)} {removeRelay} />
+      {#each $relays as relay (relay.url)}
+        <RelayCard {relay} />
       {/each}
     </div>
   {/if}
@@ -69,10 +73,10 @@
     <i slot="before" class="fa-solid fa-search" />
   </Input>
   {#each (search(q) || []).slice(0, 50) as relay (relay.url)}
-    <RelayCard {relay} hasRelay={always(false)} {addRelay} />
+    <RelayCard {relay} />
   {/each}
   <small class="text-center">
-    Showing {Math.min($knownRelays.length - relays.length, 50)}
-    of {$knownRelays.length - relays.length} known relays
+    Showing {Math.min($knownRelays.length - $relays.length, 50)}
+    of {$knownRelays.length - $relays.length} known relays
   </small>
 </Content>
diff --git a/src/app/views/RelayList.svelte b/src/app/views/RelayList.svelte
index 9b50078f..999b77ca 100644
--- a/src/app/views/RelayList.svelte
+++ b/src/app/views/RelayList.svelte
@@ -35,7 +35,7 @@
     {/if}
     <div class="grid grid-cols-1 gap-4">
       {#each $relays as relay (relay.url)}
-        <RelayCard showActions showControls {relay} />
+        <RelayCard showControls {relay} />
       {/each}
     </div>
     <div class="flex flex-col gap-6" in:fly={{y: 20}}>
@@ -48,11 +48,7 @@
         Coracle automatically discovers relays as you browse the network. Adding more relays will
         generally make things quicker to load, at the expense of higher data usage.
       </p>
-      <RelaySearch>
-        <div slot="item" let:relay>
-          <RelayCard showActions {relay} />
-        </div>
-      </RelaySearch>
+      <RelaySearch />
     </div>
   </Content>
 </div>