diff --git a/ROADMAP.md b/ROADMAP.md
index 3bdad007..8e94c04e 100644
--- a/ROADMAP.md
+++ b/ROADMAP.md
@@ -1,6 +1,13 @@
 # Current
 
 - [ ] Collapse relaycard and relaycardsimple?
+- [ ] Onboarding
+  - [ ] Create my own version of nostr.how and extension explanation
+  - [ ] Move extension suggestion to later in the app, maybe a notification if they don't have one installed
+  - [ ] Reassure user that if they don't copy the key now they can get it later in settings
+  - [ ] Design empty state for messages
+  - [ ] Add copy to explain that chat is public, dms are encrypted
+  - [ ] Add QR code that pre-fills follows and relays for a new user
 
 - [ ] Review sampleRelays, seems like we shouldn't be shuffling
 - [ ] Go over onboarding process, suggest some good relays for newcomers
diff --git a/src/agent/social.ts b/src/agent/social.ts
index b964cb43..ddf408d8 100644
--- a/src/agent/social.ts
+++ b/src/agent/social.ts
@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-import {uniq} from 'ramda'
+import {uniq, without} from 'ramda'
 import {Tags} from 'src/util/nostr'
 import database from 'src/agent/database'
 import user from 'src/agent/user'
@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ export const getFollows = pubkey =>
 export const getNetwork = pubkey => {
   const follows = getFollows(pubkey)
 
-  return uniq(follows.concat(follows.flatMap(getFollows)))
+  return uniq(without(follows, follows.flatMap(getFollows)))
 }
 
 export const getUserFollows = (): Array<string> =>
@@ -18,5 +18,5 @@ export const getUserFollows = (): Array<string> =>
 export const getUserNetwork = () => {
   const follows = getUserFollows()
 
-  return uniq(follows.concat(follows.flatMap(getFollows)))
+  return uniq(without(follows, follows.flatMap(getFollows)))
 }